my ex narcissist hasn't contacted me

Well, the first thing youll want to do is make sure you file for custody. totally mental, but I am not mental even though hes tried his hardest to convince me that I am. Regarding your FB pics, you could try marking them as spam and then consider removing him as a friend if you havent already. Lose the Loser! He tried to act as if I was off my rocker and tried to explain what was wrong with ME for thinking and saying such slanderous and horrible things. Wow thank you this is was my life of the last six years hitting g ever nerve then when I got to the letter It click this was my relationship God bless anyone who is dating these gross humans. God Bless You..I was with mine for 2 years and that was enough to rip me to pieces. But everywhere i go there is something thats remainds me of or laughter, our same thinking and taste of everything. And thats a good thing. Just apologizing in general. You will thank yourself in the morning. I sold my car flat and moved to the area that she lived. Mine was of all things a I recently realised that they often do the discard/disappearing act after they feel as though theyve exposed too much of who they are, the mask slipped, and they have to hide and wait for you to forget what happened. Thanks. I was on the phone with a cousin and he calls. I feel i need him. When they lose said control, this illusion is shattered. He needs to be seen as perfect a all times. Also, relationship between the BPD and NPD. Don't be surprised if you don't trust yourself to "do life" on your own yet. Reading Suggestion: How Dating a Narcissist Changes You. When I say Im in love with you, I love not being alone. So many unknowns I could reach out and ask, but Id never trust a word from his mouth as genuine. So, Ive done a lot of reading and digging to figure out what my ex common law was. It so happens that shes the one hes leaving me for. The best thing to do is be yourself and let the Narc back himself into a corner. I cannot describe it. But the real challenge is when he contacts me. They end up making the shrink question themselves and they are then their victim! It is possible as long as you are in a position of power and you have totally moved on. He was livid and proceeded to tell me he was done, thats it etc. Were both the same age. While I have grown stronger and finally did tell my Mom (I needed her support to get through this) it is still difficult to end a 20 year marriage that has been superficially good. Telling them they are a Narc does nothing but enrage them. Thanks for stopping by and sharing. Im wondering if now the ex might start trying to contact me for real to try to rope me back in; Ive just started getting myself together and although i still wake up every morning with panic attacks, I just want my life back before i met ths fake person. I got extremely frustrated with his ambiguous, incoherent behavior, his cavalier attitude and thought he was acting in a cowardly manner and told him so. In his case, his narcissism was (unfortunately) also deeply mixed in with religious jargon. Everything Im reading is exactly what has been happening in my life. I did not even hound her about it, and actually was pretty cool about the whole thing. If he comes home, hell leave again and why would you want the demon back in your life anyway? Dont settle for scraps when there are people out there who love you just the way you are and want to be with you through good and bad. I dont even know if you desire to changebut I brought it up because often when people are in emotional turmoil, thats what drives them to try to make these kinds of major changes in their lives about how they are interacting with the world. I receive questions all the time from people who were in relationships with narcissists, and they are the same questions I used to have. Reality They dont love you; they only need you for supply and domination. I told him to F off and all hope I ever had for him was done. Not only were they kind, caring, giving, and compassionate, but they gave you the best sex of your life. He left his wife in May and by June he was already having the affair ( which im assuming he pursued the other woman months before and when she finally agreed, he left his x wife). He even moved from LA to NY to be with her and they had only been dating a month! This enraged the narcissists because narcissists dont get dumped. I understand where you are coming from, Andy. . This is only going to set you back again and from someone who did it twice, it is worse cuz they know youll take it and you end up so depressed and confused. I ended up in court slapped with a restraining order to shut me up. The disappearing act commences. I know its an addiction rather than love. The more on blast the narcissist is, the worse the blowback will be. be glad that you are a survivor and not the one destroying future and wasting of lives to those you dearly love. I never heard or saw him again. I know i should not do that. It took a long time for me to stop being in love with my Ex. It got ugly but I loved him so much, I forgave him everytime. Hi Eden, thats a tricky one because she may not believe you if you tell her what you suspect. In my mind he was not taking responsibility for his own words and actions. Affected all aspects of my life. My N ex left me. 2 years into the relationship I found on facebook that he had moved in with one of the women on the telephone bill. He knows Im having a baby and that Im vulnerable yet he has no problem disappearing. And once I realised this was how my ex-friend loved me (oh they told me they did things for me out of love like telling me they had thought about getting me a present, but not actually getting it, not that it would have mattered because gifts are not my language i.e. Hi CJ, he sounds like a Narc I dated a few years ago. So we see the damaged person still walking around cloaking their pain and we feel for them. This is when she got her hooks in me. Till this day I do not have prove that this is his way of getting me to contact him, but I have seen a pattern. Making new friends etc. She had more than enough chances to make up for these acts, yet chose to move on to the next guy and start over from scratch. and all because of the one & only CRIME we are all GUILTY of. Your email address will not be published. He obviously couldnt stand being called out on his behavior. Ellen, seems to me YOU have the power now, not him! But i am so F.. volanerble I feel i am not over him yet. My answer was.. Ok but remember and dont forget your words and feelings anymore then. He attached to me because I was easy prey. He says hes happy with the new girl and wants to remain that way. This so-called questionable source may be because he has lied about some stuff and its his way of trying to backtrack. Is he really done? Ah, just whispering, or secretive etc. Also, my husbands girlfriend was beaten very badly by her alcoholic ex and she has a special needs child. Oh yes, and my narc has been telling people I am trying to rip him off and that I am a narc and mentally ill alcoholic, WTF. This one was so seductive, so manipulative, actually seemed very genuine at times, and was so extremely attractive to look at. I spent so much money on marriage counseling only for me to look like the crazy one while he played the victim dealing with my erratic outbursts. He will be charged with trespassing if he is ever on my property again. He tried to make me jealous with a over-weight woman who glares at me. Why so long?? The narcissists jealousy will lead them to want to drag you back down to the level you were at when you were together. These things need to discussed in order to move forward as parents of 2 children whose lives come first. Again, I apologize for the hurt I caused, and I ask for your forgiveness for all the hurt and pain I have caused you, and pray you are healed of that pain soon.. There is also a fear of what comes next when they arent returning as expected because we dont know who we are anymore without the narcissist in our lives. So transparent. Nothing great about it. Once you can accept this truth, that they will not change for all the love in the world then you are on your way. If you are a loving person it is almost impossible to hate anyone. Hes totally using her for her fame because shes good at what he wants to be good at. The pendulum is simply an analogy for the trajectory your emotions take after a break up. He can shut the cable off and when Im ready, Ill set the boxes in a garbage bag and sit it near my mailbox on the road but he wont have the luxury of seeing me at any time if I can help it at my door. Luckily we never lived together, we were never married and I dont have kids with him. So, the narcissist will think things like, Finley truly worshipped me like the angelic being that I am, Charlies got some work to do. Then theyll start calling and texting you, trying to gain access to some of that good supply once more. Because in most cases, they will never admit they have a problem. Not that they care. I dont take suicide lightly, so I advise you to seek professional help if it ever comes to this. They will always try to come back into our lives. I went from the frying pan to the fire!! Im sorry, and I do hope you forgive me for the abrupt end and all pain that you have experienced as a result of my actions. It hurts and its much easier and feels exteme happy if i should react. He calls again..I wait then text him????. Talk about great timing like having you visit to answer my questions and fears You are such an AMAZING friend. Then, a few short weeks later after asking her in a gentle manner where she has been and when is she going to be sending out my money, she blocks me from Facebook and cuts me out of her life yet againsigh. When the narcissist leaves and then returns, it dysregulates neurotransmitters in our brains. Very giving in our lovemaking (in contrast to what Ive read about most Ns). Where Im from, we call them wolves in sheeps clothing (shudder). When I started questioning his hobbies/spendings/ more female friends (I had enough), the devalue followed by discard happened. He has tried everything to stop my return. Stay strong and dont fall for the hoovering. Mine caused me two years of terror before divorcing me. I let my ex N in as a friend. My ex did the same. Then came the crack. Narcissists keep us tethered to them by something we cant explainuntil either they or we cut the cord for good. Daily posts to her family and the friends id still never met on how wonderful he was. Narcs are not decent people and I am scared now what this contact means. He asked about the equipment and we definately didnt talk about anything personal. But as was the case with you, and all the partners they had before you, the new supply will eventually be devalued and discarded, too. For a start, it is self-indulgent. after 3 month no contact this is what he said in a private message on FB: I miss jXXX (grandchild). Thanks for another good post, Kim. The cycle begins again. When you click on SEND.. its sooo sad feeling. So how do you explain to the ones that you love that they the have no future because of a mental disorder starting grade one that was not recognised until a year ago? I still think about her every damn day and even had a dream the other night that she came back into my life with an apology for her behavior. Anon, my comments were taken way out of context. Narcissists live in denial of who they really are. I want to have a loving partner and its making me self sabotage in ways that I cant even explain. On the other hand, if youre aware of this, and changing the narcissist isnt your motivation, you just know they need a real friend in their life, then go ahead. 3. I think he was very injured when I didnt reply to his Happy New Years text. This whole crap about us teaching others how to treat us is bogus and only applies to people who dont carry around a moral compass of their own. Having trust issues, no friends. We dont use the Narc word but let her know that she is blameless and that it is ALL him. 2. Then he leaves me with a weak excuse. What really is bothering me? Thanks! There is a hidden message in everything they say. Read Dr. George K. Simon! What I Donald Trump, Roger Stone, and Associates have a better chance of success. 1. Mine seemed disinterested and almost pretended they were not there. I loved him beyond belief. I am feeling embarrassed because my narc hoovered me today and it worked. That person we all fell so in Love with doesnt exist Do they send clues or try to spy to see if you are still alive? A few days after the restraining order hearing, I have my court date for the battery charge, which I am hoping will be dismissed due to the fact that I have pictures of abuse from last year. Thanks for your reply Kim. You have been through it. They might say something like, I hated the way my ex dressed, they never made an effort for me. I called out his lies in front of people and came off looking crazy. Wrote to me that he missed me and then I told him never contact me and he sent me a nasty email trying to bring me down. document.getElementById( "ak_js_1" ).setAttribute( "value", ( new Date() ).getTime() ); Hi sorry to hear everyones painful stories, it truly is the most awful thing ever. But i wont bite the apple again. If anyone is in denial its him. Does that mean he wasnt a narcissist? Stay strong and dont give in! She sounds like she has an addiction either chemical or narcissitic. No means no and thats what she has violated a lot of timesacting like a 10 year oldseeking revenge and such etc.. So ladies, women can be just as devestaing a Narcissist as a man can! However, if they dont want to see him, I wouldnt go out on a limb for him unless there is some sort of court order in place. It doesnt mean you are worthless you are a really good person and they know it. We still feel their pain and still want to help them. And every time I think to myself a real narcissist would never apologizewould never admit his frailty. But once I pick him upremind him of his valuetell him I believe in him and see his strengthits only a matter of days or weeks before he finds a reason to fight and the silent treatment begins. I apologize or Im sorry without actions matching for a long time are not true sorries Cling on to your gut which is Get Out!!! When would be a good time to come by to get the cable box and belongings? Like were best friends and no time is a good time in my book. They must devalue and discard their victims because once they are no longer able to absorb and internalize the narcissists self-hate, the narcissist is forced to find a new receptacle. I will have to be strong and say no otherwise will go back in the vicious circle. know who and what he is, and he knows I know the truth about him. Like a predator he catches me. Heres whythe reality is that narcissists suffer from mental health issues. So after all of that I am now convinced they work with smokimg mirrorswhen you stop playing their game, they lose all the magic. They can move on as if nothing ever happen and never want to speak on or own the nasty fake people theyve become. Try relaxing music. Unfortunately, once you learn none if it was real, you cant help but wonder why you ever trusted them in the first place. .they disappear after they have disclosed too much. I want Information on winning a narcissist without no contact. He is 10 years older fat bald and is a bit of a square. Cara, Im sorry for all the sorrow youve experienced. Imagine never being able to escape because of the consequences youd face, and even when you seek help, youre told by the church that you are at fault for you husbands behavior, you arent being a good wife and doing your duties :/ I told him that I believed he was a narc and pointed out all of his manipulative behaviors..and told him that unless he faced it and stopped pretending he would never get the love he seems so desperate for. Should I be on my guard. After he hit me with the garbage, I guess I reacted with instinct and hit him. I know logically who he is (the therapist who we had seen together informed me the other day that my ex is actually very sociopathic and rare and this is a guy whose specialty is abusive, angry men)so I know on paper who and what he isyet WHY cant I get him OUT of my heart? And most important the lies were driving me bonkers. Of course, there is still a lot to doubt and discuss. Therspist didnt mention anything about narcissism but one Christmas eve my ex narc left mw stranded. If you can tolerate the emotional rollercoaster that will come with maintaining a friendship with a narcissist, then go ahead. This gives them a great advantage over us. Im glad you are able to get some sort of relief from reading my posts. YOUR ABUSIVE. WHY DO I WANT HIM BACKWHY CANT I JUST FORGET ABOUT HIMIM SCARED THANKS FOR HEARING ME OUT, You have to realeyes that being involved with an narc is no thing like being with someone who is not a narc. 1. CRAZY TOWN!!!!! I was devastated because Id never tell him Id want to kill him EVER!!! That may be whats happened with you. It is a shock to one to realize that you were not in the real world at age 60. He knows what I think of him. I know him well and everything he does is planned ahead. 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I try only now to be patient to feel my way and not react to this sense of emptiness fill it with other things and in a way hope that in time that the feelings will return but that is only for the experience of flying we are not alone in this world we do not do things only for the thing itself but that experience is surrounded by other people and its those people who are largely the same all of whom stood back and let me be abused. And in my mind it feels like if he walks behind me or is somewhere els in the shop. He plays a role in a lot of storys because he is part of my history. Thank you. I did and I am so much happier now. Funny, I have been wondering the same as Samantha Three months after divorce (18 months ago), N-ex bought a house down the street from me, to make it easy for our children to go back and forth between house (now we can all be friends, right?). I wish you well, my brother. It has not at all been my intention to hurt you in any way, and I really do want the best for you. Studies prove that people with narcissistic personality traits, maintain contact with their exes because theyve got something to gain such as sex or resources like money. As I said the last time we spoke, I am here for you if you want to talk to me and have some positive things to say. She posts all sorts of things on Facebook making her seem like she is wealthy , champagne pictures etc and how happy she is. STAY AWAY FROM THEM, THEY MEAN YOU NO GOOD WILL!! You are doing great service work in this area and you should be proud of how many people you help and inspire every day. It doesn't matter if you're the mother of their children. Finally, a fourth reason that we care so much about if the narcissist is finished with us is that the narcissist did not give us closure. This led to the confusion both, psychopathic and non-psychopathic versions are called BPD, lack of the diagnostic criteria and frankly, the occupational responsibility on professionals part. After three days he was gone. he tried to seperate me and my daughter . Narcissists never really break up with you in the traditional sense. You will find that you will have good days and then feel like youre back at day one. This enraged the narcissists because narcissists don't get dumped. You are his trophy, you are perfect (at least at the beginning) and all the focus should be on him anyways. The plan is to keep you within reach. He waited two months. If they say how are you? Do not reply good nothing no contact. -Financial Exploitation. This is a tricky one and maybe Kim could help you. I do not say this lightly, I wish I could say I saw through him much earlier. I learned my lessons over and over again until i was conditioned to not be my outgoing, confident self and be subservient to her will and desires. And now when she is in distress what does she expect me to do? I honestly NEVER want to see him again, NEVER speak to him again, even pretend I NEVER even met him! Thank you. I never did nothing but fallin love with a man who lied to me . Anonymous, I find what you said to be quite unfair. I dont know enough about borderlines but they do say narcissists usually have something else with their disorder ie sociopath narcissist, sex addict narcissist..maybe he is a borderline narcissist. Still, the deeds were the deeds. That I seemed to have bipolar and need help. My poor friend just sat there with a glazed look; she barely got a word in. You see, creating an illusion of happiness is a narcissist's favorite form of post-breakup damage control. NC is easy now and he isnt harassing me or anything. Why do I tell you this? I shouldnt feel bad but its like I dont exist and hes behaving so well for her and he was horrible to me. But i swiftly reminded myself of why i went no-contact to begin with. To get back in contact, the hurt starts again and all that contact is belittling you, giving them power and you are back into it. I feel for you but IF you knew he was cheating on you and you stayed, get some good therapy and heal. He said if he found it, he would put it in my mailbox, which is next to my landladys house. I researched NPD and sure enough- totally described my husband. I have learned so much by reading about NPD, sociopaths, etc., and I am grateful to know I am not the crazy one, even though I feel badly that other people have had to go through the same things! How do you get someone who keeps calling your number while you NEVER answer it to leave you alone? He obviously has others. I lost contact with all other family members. Narcs are about as predictable as flies on dog poo. I spoke to him by email and regretted it. Its an intern fight where Always negative emotion comes above. I decided I had enough, and went and filed for a restraining order for dating violence. I mourn the person he could have been if his life started over in a different family. It can only be described as a LIVING NIGHTMARE. I found that telling mine that I had figured out he was a Narc/Sociopath scared him off. Reading Suggestion: The Narcissist Discard phase. He believes that I should return his devotion because in his mind he has never tried so hard with anyone. Everyone experiences jealousy because its a natural emotion. The heart of the book is explainingwhy we do things in these relationships we dont understand and how we can stop. I love being your pain. When we work on overcoming those issues, we then begin to attract healthy partners into our lives , Thank you, KIM and thank you HEALING for the insightful comments. So now i confessed that i miss him to and our love and laughter. This website was how do you say it? He is hoovering and still active and persistant about it even since hes moved back with Kym. I meet him 3 1/2 years ago, he was the most charming person Id every met my soul mate. The other 5% was excruciatiting to deal with though, and left me more more confused than if she had simply just been mean most of the time. They often cannot function in even simple, daily tasks. For 5 years of our relationship, he blamed me for not being able to attend until I found out he was not invited. But on an emotional level it is so hard to accept that the man I so loved is just an empty shell. I kept two years worth of text messages to prove we had a relationship to combat his lies or if he wants to sue me. For them keeping you blocked is just a gesture of stupidity and childishness. These types dont settle on happiness (they are never happy in the true sense of the word), its all about what their partners offer in the form of convenience. I mean after all she has done to me I really am sorry for her pain. Walk away and find someone who respects and appreciates you. I do miss the good times which were few but not the bad ones. Eden and tiredofliars8, WOW the idea, that he is possibly the BPD (borderline) came to me while I was reading the story. Your ex isn't going to change. In other words, they may sometimes treat you well, even though youve been discarded since long ago and you may not even realise it. The only reason why there was any communication in April of this year is because he was snooping on my LinkedIn profile. It was like his self had fractured (hindsights 20/20)! 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my ex narcissist hasn't contacted me