He was also court ordered counseling he got out of it too. I'm a virgo male and married a female libra. I, hate when dumb people try to judge or bully me. I have yet to find a Libra female who is willing to be a real friend instead of being jealous and gossipy. They could give 2 shits for their Aries older sister. This is likely a defense mechanism, as she may feel that any criticism of her behaviors is a rejection of herself. They say Librans hate conflict and that we shy away from them, that's what others see, but what they don't realize is that we're fighting not to open our mouths out of psychologically, emotionally and spiritually dismantling you on the spot. However, the stuff you put into the Libras mind it stays there. A Libran I worked with began the day by removing her coat and airing her daily 20-minute complaint. Why does it say that A LIBRA AND CAPRICORN (MALE LIBRA FEMALE CAPRICORN? We will love to the ends of time and to our very detriment and will give chance after chance after chance to prove your self. TRY ME!!! I know a libra and she is very controlling. Generally, I think Libras are more fair, and if they are ever dishonest, they at least have the decency to feel guilty about it ;), Libra's are hands down..the best sign of the entire Zodiac..unless you make us go dark-side or unless you piss us off or cross us. Godfather to her daughter and son her parents never had. We are extremely patient.but not always forgiving..it is best not to cross a Libra..unless you want your soul torn to the corners of the universe. Just my experiences of libras I know. Ive been with a Libra since aug 2018 and b4 that i was with a mental scorpio. (Of course I'm born in October hahaI happen to be controlling indeed toward those who get closer to me; in the work-social arenaa combination of practicality- choosing your battles- and impracticality - picking battles you can't win, just to make a point, I do that too. I took my life out of utter mental & emotional meltdown. The secret to any Sun in Libra is they hate to be alone. The Native American totem of the Libran time frame is the Raven. Not be the only reason Im happy. every sign has a dark side but a libra??? Their status is important to them before everything, even before their family, they are treacherous and chasing sickly, dressing up as those who are fans so they do not have their own character, for them there is nothing to admire a man who slept with many girls, not considered to be a man, not cool - This is the person they imitate every day and every day until they meet someone greater than him in this field is very shallow, and thus inherently boring dressing up as other people, are subject in any depth. Always. 1.) Libra women, when sad or upset, often find that their behaviors betray their emotional turmoil. she was so nice to outsiders but treated my family and dad like dirt. Known for being indecisive and eager to please, this air sign is unlikely to ever initiate a breakup and very likely to mourn one long after it's over. The second was a much much older woman that I used to work with was such a liar I mean she lied about everything she would embellish the facts so much so that it made everyone around her smile because they knew what she was up to and still she carried on, it became a bit of a joke amongst the staff, but the thing that stood out for me was how unbelievably cold hearted this woman was, I mean stone cold ruthless to the core, this libra was married, had been for many many years had several children with her husband apparently had suffered much abuse from her husband but continued to live with him because it suited her financially, her words, not mine! When they do good they want that pat on the back. All that's left (like the bad traits mentioned above which seemed to me like traits of a dangerous personality disorder) is formed depending on countless variables (the way one was raised, experiences etc..) we do have a dark side, but we don't all react the same way. Show her that you are interested in spending time with her, as this will help you ensure that she does not create any relationships that will cause her to suffer in the future. Here's why. Then i feel bad afterwards and consume chocolates laced with other people's feelings. At least when im about to say a lie i have her in my mind to tell me if im going to be fake no one will apreceate my true kind and loving self . Now i know how to deal with him.. I'm surrounded by Librans in my family, was married to one for 15 years and I have a strong Libran energy with 4 planets in the 7th house (including sun, mercury and venus). Pisces. i was a good kid. Most good tennis players are Librans and are very bad losers. Underneath her exterior, she may be suffering from crushing sadness. Aries does not like anyone to know their weaknesses, so if they feel sad, it often comes across as anger or frustration. I really am reevaluating things now for sure!! my brother and daughter are both libra and my brother has 3 boys. If a libras dark side showing youve had to provoke them in some way. Remember Libras hate conflict, but they will not tolerate cruelty happening when they can put a stop to it. I can't with him I just like his attractiveness. They isolate themselves and start to detach, even though they still attempt to appear happy. Do Libras hide their emotions? Think i am not fake person. Hm. Let's be honest ladies and gentlemen, you weren't here to read about 1000 reasons why people should love us librans.. you just got a dose of reality, live with it. I honestly think they smell it. This describes her to a T. I couldn't wrap my head around it because I'm not like that. Because, my inability to cope with my emotions and disability to be alone should never weight others down. They are also intuitive about the future and have an uncanny ability to read people for clues about what they may want or need. In turn, this will give her a chance to build a new life on a strong foundation. He did work hard to improvise that space for me. This may cause her to decide that she should abstain from making major decisions. Cancerians are the mommas of the friend group, regardless of gender. My mom is a libra and she is exactly like that. Our website services, content and products are not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. I much rather have Libra friends, lovers, co-workers, or acquaintances than any other sign. I learned to not tell secrets. Irritability is the worst part I hate about myself. And just reading some of the negative opinions and attacks on Libras by others here, it just reaffirms my choice. These people would never guess that Professor Libra was NOT at all on their side and was infact VERY jealous of them. Also as soon they breakup with you and have someone else in their life, they wont let you go that fast because they want to track every step of you, and they hate confrontation but love drama. In fact she spent a good time saying she expected to speak to my partner, but in a very roundabout way! But my current partner said the same thing as the last guy that I was bipolar, vindictive, and crazy. He had made so many promises to me about the future we had together. I will deny there is a problem all the while working frantically to justify or make it work, whatever it is. They're divorced now. The signs a Libra man is trying to hide his feelings aren't always that obvious but you can't really ignore the fact that he constantly smiles and laughs around you and his eyes are always sparkling when he sees you. I have my absolutely awful moments when I break someone's trust, when I hurt someone's feelings, and try to control everything and act like it's not my fault. Im a gemini. So this article is in no way 10% correct describing how a Libra is like when wronged. He can't see or type his sister's name in his FB IM? but they need to recharge in order to keep it up or as i said before they will lash out. He is very intelligent and extremely good at computers/programming and logical science, stuffs which requires a lot of high IQ. It is possible that her downcast feelings will develop into anger or rage. The normally outgoing sign can become isolated, and may binge-eat or become too lethargic to do anything. I am leaving him in God's hands because I know one day he will pay for all these sick acts he's committed. she would rage out. Freaking true to the core. Its a painful truth and for those of you who got offended by this article. Scorpio's passion can turn negative when they're feeling sad or depressed, causing them to become hostile, isolated, and have violent mood swings. This just says a lot. Question: I was born on December 20th, but my family members say that my zodiac sign is Libra. I am almost offended by this "even the best libras do not think you have feelings or a brain". Why Do Libras Hide Their Feelings? Sorry scorpios but theres something not right in ur messed up heads. Do Libras Hide Their Emotions? Likewise, when Libras initiate a split, they often lead with agreeable, ambiguous language (for instance, Libras would rather "take a break" than "break up"). And wanted an apology. but in reality this plan has been prepared too much in advance. Those born in the first week of October are prone to depression (saturn decan) due to their repressed emotions and hide it so well. Toxic Libra will always make you feel like you were the one in the wrong. This has happened to me more than twice in my life at very different times and situations(in a relationship, almost boyfriend, friend, boss) with men and women libras. Its that I still struggle loving myself and getttin my wants and needs. I have begun meeting new people like this "dont be fooled, I am not what it seems". Answer The Lion's Paw- A Libra is ruled by their emotions and intuition. BUT dont forget the good as long as you stay on their good side theyll spoil you be your shoulder to cry on and alot more. when i say spiritual abuse, she was always in to some different religion even witchcraft at one point. I'm just dealing with a toxic one. Their kids are not allowed to love anyone but her, the mother. It doesn't matter how badly that ex may have hurt them Libras are incredibly understanding individuals who can forgive and forget just about anything. I just decided to keep my personal life private from her. Telling an Aquarius Woman How You Feel: How Do You Do It? Came to help him. (4) I am skilled at photography. She is an extremely toxic person. Without support, a Libra woman may begin to behave in a reckless manner. He had tons of pornographic magazines when a teenager. But I've also tried to genuinely fix my mistakes and repair the damage I cause because of my behavior. There are many bad parents and abusers, even family murderers with different zodiac signs. If she is pushed into a conversation, then she may try to avoid specific aspects of the conversation. They are the best at putting on a good social front, especially at parties and board meetings. Every astrology reading sugarcoats signs like Libra so it must be that shocking for you. If this occurs, then attempt to nourish your relationship as soon as possible. Yes, at this point I'm the meanest person i know. This was an interesting read. Be Mysterious. I'm a Libran and I all I care about is love . Libra women have some beauty about them because they're not trying too hard and keeping things easy. Throughout the years we dated other people but always kept in contact with each other. Libra is a sign ruled by Venus, which means Libras prefer to use logic over emotion. The content produced by YourTango is for informational and educational purposes only. but I have no clue and it's alright, because I chose to be independent and learn to live without having a partner, because I want to have natural goodness in me and not all the fake stuff. Libras are more stable than most. You will never be able to lie to us and get away with it.we can see the lies before they ever come out of your mouth. Libras can be extremely easy going until their sense of justice is upset. i ended up living a lot of my life with my grandmother because my mom would not stop physically abusing me. I knew then she truly was that ugly person from Christmas. I, remember all the bad stuff anyone has ever done to me BUT i have a patience of a God. You might think to yourself if only someone could understand you, then they wouldn't have to ask what was wrong (don't we all want this?!). This is very interesting; my mother is Libra and her vacillation between kind and cruel has kept me confused and emotionally bleeding for my entire almost 58 years on this earth. But now I discovered that I gave everything to the wrong people. While this may seem like a negative trait, it can actually be quie . Absolutely, every sign except for that poison scorp. But Libra guy 2 created these "conflict triangles" with other people. They are tooo real people to be fake. Or the inability to care about circumstances in our roomie situation that were distressing to me as I thought of her like a sister. I am thankful she has a new Prey in her life, anything to keep her away from me, let her manipulate that poor sap of an Aries man! Samantha Maffucci is an editor for YourTango who has written hundreds of articles about relationships, trending news and entertainment, and astrology. The only reason I can think of is that, it is because we hide ourself so well in public that we carry all the annoyances and irritation back home, to a place we do not need to hide and while at home, the slightest irritation can wreck havoc. Since we are all complex individuals, it can be hard to just pin a few personality traits to each of us and leave it at that. I strongly dislike negativity and conflict. My older bro is a libra, a paedophile. So Im like that is the craziest thing. Or is it the karma ? Give it all to me the good and the bad. Pretty damn true. drew new lines in 1930. Often, the question "Why?" What's hard is, is that a lot of this does happen. Libra: Don't leave them alone What happens when all the fun and excitement of being in a relationship is over??? Wants two men at one time, expecting both to remain while she decides, but they better not find another woman while the libra is deciding. If peace cant be had, silence and secrets will do. Oops Mr. Libra "forgot" his wallet at his apartment (he insisted I come in so I would have to sit in a hot car) clever way to get a female in a Libra males apartment. It has been two years and I am still hurting because I havent fully invested in myself. Thats how you deal w a libra. Guys you are reading an article about the DARK SIDE of Libra, of course you are going to read a lot of bad things! When it's a Libra's partner doing the breaking up, this air sign does everything in their power to make sure the partnership ends on good terms. Heres something to know about a libra, they have a gut feeling that is almost always accurate, if you hurt a libra and not be able to make it up to them fully they will use and hurt you in anyway possible over the smallest things yet not feel any remorse. Libras create a conflict between two acquaintances who not normally have any conflict by Libra telling each person the other "said" something negative about them, when in fact, it never happened. I have been in 3 relationships in my life and the the 3 of them are Libra. Libras a diplomatic people we dont like to be mistreated or treated unfairly nor like it being done to other people yes I am lazy and charming and very indecisive but yes Libras are very sweet and loyal ppl but if we dnt get it back in return yes Im throwing a fit. Then two years passed and her excuse was "I was going through it mentally and didn't want you to deal with my shit" Umm what are friends for?? The determined, level-headed Capricorn can become the complete opposite when depressed. The word baddie was created because of them. If you find that she is dismissing you as though she is mad or angry, then you should learn about what happens when a Libra woman is mad. Libra men are sensitive. The one I know best is so selfish, vindictive that she doesn't care who's life she ruins while in the process of getting what she wants. Should she be pressed, then she may behave in a manner that removes herself from that person's presence. This article and comments have really opened my eyes. One of them that you should really fear about my dark side are my games that I put you in (you are my pawn and will always be until I get my revenge or I hear an apology if not you'll never be out of my loop until you're gone or I am). Their lover. None of this rings true for me and you should not say "even the best" this emplies EVERY SINGLE Libra thinks more of themselves than they think of you. My children I mentioned earlier just so happen to be a gemini girl and a sagittarian boy. 2. Every sign is capable of this but ive only seen it with the Scorpio sign. OK so now she knows many of my inner secrets and treating me like nothing really changed between us except less lovey dovey stuff. I'm sorry many of you have had incredibly bad experiences with Librans, but understand that not all of them deserve to be so harshly judged. True Librans dont like conflict or ugliness. Considering the importance of maintaining a good relationship with a Libra woman, we invite you to look through our article collection about how to have a healthy relationship with a Libra woman, as this will provide you with a host of tools to help you successfully navigate your relationship. So it depends on the individual Libra guy and his particular situation. We are the angel and the demon in one and we are enthralled with both sides equallythough we have a secret love and a secret draw towards the power of our darkness. She avoided me like the plague, lol. I am a lion. Once they see that another can give better, they will give themselves over to another (but they wont leave you, ever. Everyday, physical pain reminds me of how manipulative, hypocritical, cynical and deceptive she can be. They often hide whatever thoughts they have in their minds because they want the people around them to accept and like them. Which is usually just a LIE. Then she uses that information against them. Very nice guy. I normally got along with everyone. Libras may also do this because they want to be liked and accepted by thoe around them. )are NOT COMPATIBLE? Theyre the perfect acquintance. we just want you to think you've won. We have been doing that since 1989 to 2004 we did hookup a few times before 1996 none since then no longer felt right. I have a Libra sister. I am a bi Leo female and fell for this Libra woman, who I have been friends with for around 2-3 years, and fell for her over a year ago. If they do they will learn to regret it. Libra is hopelessly disillusioned with her own actions & behaviour. But he would always appear out of the blue and say things like everything happens for a reason. etc etc. She is condescending, arrogant, extremely intrusive, uses my brother to find out what I am doing even though I am a mature woman. You probably deserved it etc. We are easily hurt and scarred. It will benefit her if you take the time to support her by giving her the means to explore her interests. Don't let their "niceness" fool you. It is certain that she will make the decision to think about herself, as she is dealing with stresses that concern her. I'm a Capricorn who's been getting to know this Libra male. hi, i would like to know which one is more accurate sun sign or moon sign. Libras are known to hide their real feelings in order to avoid conflicts with the people around them. When she shares her feelings with you, be certain to show her that you are willing and able to provide her emotional and intellectual support. Like a few here said earlier, there's more to the picture about the signs, you have to look at the sum total of your chart. It is commonly used to represent Libra, people whose zodiac sign is Libra, and astrology in general. All of them gossiped and spoke negatively about others behind their backs and were the source of untrue rumors. Libra guy 2 met me and my husband "TOGETHER" at a college Christmas party. Sylvia Sky (author) from USA on October 08, 2016: Shewolf, it is painful for all when people don't understand us. Hi everyone, I am a Libran that you guys are bad-mouthing/talking about. Visit SAMHSA's website, or call 1-800-662-HELP (4357) or 1-800-273-TALK (8255). im living with a libra female and i am done with her trying to control my life.. wanting to have things go well with her guys. Reactions are learned through experience and habit, you are not born with a certain way of reacting due to a zodiac sign. RELATED: The Negative Personality Traits Of The Scorpio Zodiac Sign, According To Astrology. Because it's almost impossible to feel sorry for them. Boy was I so wrong and regretted holding on for so long. But again, these are the negative ones I'm talking about, of course. A negative Libra will move in with or marry someone to escape the financial or emotional pit they have dug for themselves. They dont mind killing u if thats what it takes. I'm super proud to be one. They also crave balance, and they can be equally as self-indulgent as they are generous. But at the same time, Libra men can also be quite expressive with their emotions. I am still trying to find that perfect middle. When Libras are healthy they are funloving, charming and very intelligent. Herself, as she may try to avoid specific aspects of the friend,... She expected to speak to my partner, but in a very roundabout way while working frantically to justify make. 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